Frequently Asked Questions
Below you will find a cursory attempt to answer any and all of your pressing questions! If you do not see your question on the list, please refer to the form at the bottom of the page where we can get into contact with you!
Q: What should I wear? Is there a Dress Code?
Black Tie Optional
Q: What Time Should I Arrive?
The Ceremony begins at 4:30, but we suggest showing up beforehand to get settled.​
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The full schedule is available on our "Schedule" Page on the Website.
Q: When Is the RSVP Deadline? Do I Mail it in or Do It Online?
The RSVP Deadline is September 9. We ask that you please mail these in as we do not have an online option.
Q: What will the Weather be like this time of year?
Weather in the Carolinas is always a tricky one. Instead of trying to predict the weather for you we ask that everyone be praying for sunshine and checking their weather apps!
Q: Will the Ceremony and Reception be Indoors or Outdoors?
(Weather Permitting) The Ceremony will be held on the beautiful lawn of Abney Hall.
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Afterwards there will be an outdoor Cocktail hour followed by a Reception hosted under a tent.
Q: Are Kids Welcome?
We kindly ask that this is an adult only event.
Q: Do you have a Registry?
Yes! The Registry is located on the Home Page towards the bottom!
Q: Will Parking be Available?
Yes! A valet will meet you as you pull up to the circular drive in front of the house to park your car.
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We do ask that you allow the staff to take care of parking as we want to be respectful of our beautiful venue!
Q: How Do I Get to the Venue?
Please refer to our "Directions & Hotels" Page on the website. It features a Map for getting to the venue and the address.
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We suggest a particular route and strongly encourage those driving from Charlotte to take it.
Q: Do You Have a Hotel Block For Guests? Where Should I Stay?
Sadly, the hotel blocks are no longer available!
Q: Can I Take and Post Pictures of the Wedding?
Yes! Absolutely! We only ask that the Ceremony is an Unplugged Ceremony, so there will be no photos during this time.
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Other than that, we encourage you to take photos and tag both Charlie and Allison!
Q: Did we not answer your question?
If you scroll just a little further you will find a form to fill out with your question and we will address it as soon as possible!
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We are so excited to have you as a part of our special day!
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If you do not see your question above, please do not hesitate to ask!